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My Parents Divorced And Made Me Choose

  • Published on: 07 August 2018
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    This is Ruth. Her story is kind of sad, because it's about how her parents recently got divorced. Ruth’s parents were married for 20 years, and at least in her eyes they’d always seemed like the ideal couple. It’s true that they were pretty different, but she thought it was that classic case when two people complete each other just like two pieces of a puzzle. Her dad is a big, quiet man, always ready to give a kind smile to anyone. Her mom is the exact opposite – a firework of a person. She’s always talking or doing something, laughing noisily and having arguments with people. So, what did they have in common? RUTH. She was an only child and they both adored her.

    Some time after her 15th birthday, Ruth’s parents said they needed to talk to her. She hated that “We need to talk” stuff, and straight away felt pretty nervous. Her bad feeling was correct, as she soon heard that phrase every child dreads: “We decided that we need to divorce. You’re grown up and we hope you understand us.” Well, she acted very considerately, and didn’t ask a thing about what had happened. But one thing bothered her above all. How come she’d never notices they weren’t getting along anymore?

    All of a sudden their life became a real hell. They started the divorce process like two civilized people, and kept it up like that when dividing their assets...until it came to the most precious thing – their daughter. Both her mom and dad wanted her to live with them, and was determined to stand their ground. “Mom? Dad? I’m a person, not a thing! Maybe you could ask me what I want?” Ruth thought. Now Ruth had always known she would need to grow up one day, but didn’t expect that it would have to happen so soon.

    The three of them were still living together, but it was no longer their nice cozy home anymore. Ruth noticed one thing in particular that was worrying her a lot. Her mom was trying to win her affection in any way possible. She started buying her expensive stuff and took her out to spas and restaurants, and generally started acting more like her best friend than her mother. It was nice, but didn’t give her a good feeling. The worst thing was that when they were alone she always tried to convince Ruth that her father was a weak person or that he was too busy to give her attention, and plenty of other not very nice things. Whereas her dad was acting like he’d already lost – he was there always looking sad, eating his dinners all alone and staring at her like a kicked dog.

    Right before the court date, Ruth accidentally overheard something super-painful. Her mom and dad were having a private conversation, and she heard her mother say: “If you claim that you can’t take care of Ruth, I’ll let you see her freely anytime you want; otherwise I’ll accuse you of being violent and will do everything I can to limit your time with her. Do as I say, because you know that she'll choose me anyway!” Ruth felt like she’d been struck by lightning. Her eyes were opened at once to just how manipulative her mom was. And this blackmail was horrible! She heard her dad give in to her mom just so he would have the opportunity to see her. She was overwhelmed, and at that moment made her decision. The next day, to everyone’s shock, she said that she wanted to live with her dad. Her mom looked like she’d been slapped in the face, and her dad burst into tears right there in front of everyone.

    Afterwards, Ruth stayed on to live with her dad, and once her mom had left she felt bitter inside. With their “friendship” over, she called Ruth from time to time just to tell her what an ungrateful traitor she was. Ruth didn’t know how to answer her. Ruth was convinced that she had done nothing wrong, though. Whereas her dad was now totally happy, always caring, always asking for her opinion and giving her nice treats. She now had lots of freedom, which was really handy for a 15-year-old girl.

    Ruth wanted to go overnight to a music festival, and her dad on this occasion stood firm and said that he wouldn’t let her go because she was too young. She cried and yelled but he said it wasn’t up for negotiation. Desperate to go, she suddenly shouted at him: “You know what? If you don’t let me go, I’ll call mom and ask her to let me live with her!” That kicked dog expression appeared once more on her dad's face; he just said “Ok. Do whatever you like,” and left the room in silence. Ruth stood there unable to believe how much she’d just screwed up. She felt so ashamed!

    At that moment, she realised how much she had inherited her mother’s personality traits. She had that same trait of being a shameless manipulator that Ruth detested her for. But soon she also realised that she could understand her mother a little better now: she had manipulated Ruth and blackmailed her dad because she had been desperate, and she did it for something way more serious than her daughter’s petty teenage whims.
  • Runtime : 6:51
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COMMENTS: 40

  • ACTUALLY HAPPENED
    ACTUALLY HAPPENED   2 months ago

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  • Geegbaej
    Geegbaej   13 minuts ago

    I feel bad for the dad, he is the one being abused day by day.

  • I Dont Care
    I Dont Care   15 minuts ago

    Where did you get those glasses with rainbows

  • Ria Kakkar
    Ria Kakkar   32 minuts ago

    This is really, really helpful. I am going exactly through the stage in the video where I have to make my decision and I picked my dad, thinking my mom is a villain. But I understand why she was like that.

  • Nicholas Morales
    Nicholas Morales   38 minuts ago

    Always be thankful that you have parents to choose between. It's too late for me and my father and my mother is dead.Short of an abusive parent or set of them, cherish the parents you have while you have them. You never know; the next time you turn around, they might not be there to lift you up anymore...That isn't to say that this isn't sad as well, but always remember that there are worse fates than separation. Trust me... I know.And if anyone would say that this has nothing to do with that, it actually does. I was separated from my biological father when I was three, my mother and stepfather divorced when I was eleven, I went to live with my biological father when I was fifteen only to find out he was a severe alcoholicThen, to top that all off, my mother died on January 15th 2013... my twenty-third birthday.So, remember: Cherish what you have while you have it. And if you've suffered mine or a similar fate, you have my deepest condolences.

  • I'm a moth
    I'm a moth   45 minuts ago

    Parents: honey do you want your dad lasagna or the food I made Youtubers:

  • hurtful
    hurtful   53 minuts ago

    That’s terrible! You shouldn’t be given that type of choice, especially when there’s so much tension in the house.

  • Ruben Martinez
    Ruben Martinez   55 minuts ago

    I have the same thing the judge said their gonna send my dad to alsavador and idk if I can see him any more 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • lululuck
    lululuck   1 hours ago

    I'm really worried about my parents divorcing.. They haven't yet but they have been fighting atleast once a week.. However, my dad is the one earning most of our money and is a engineer so he is good with electronics/electrical stuff and things I don't know.. While my mom is a stay at home mom most of the time, loves to spend time with me and my sisters, is creative, and she is the main reason why me and my sisters aren't having to do work all day because she understands that we atleast need positivity in our lives and times where we can have fun.If they ever divorce, I have no idea who me and my triplet sisters will choose.. Most other kids with divorced parents usually have no siblings or 1 or 2. For me, mine are younger triplet sisters meaning that if my parents do divorce money will become ah huge problem. I really hope no one else continues to feel this way and I truly wish that no one would have to deal with divorced parents....

  • Veronika Nightstar
    Veronika Nightstar   1 hours ago

    Bruh this isnt even that bad of a story wtf at least they are acting civilized not like my parents

  • Alyssa Wostrel
    Alyssa Wostrel   1 hours ago

    I feel bad.....I think it was good that you chose your dad, but I really hope you guys had a good life and got better. I kind know how you feel... Just a little! Good job dealing with it though,

  • ROBLOXIAN DEACON
    ROBLOXIAN DEACON   1 hours ago

    Oh AND MY WELL MY DAD AND STEP MOM DIVORCED AND DIDN'T GIVE A SHIT

  • TrickyNekro
    TrickyNekro   1 hours ago

    Ah poor dad, sad story true, shows also that women are very capable of domestic violence (at least the blackmail part), but partially brought it up to himself.Growing some balls doesn´t hurt (work with self-esteem, image etc). Now of course it´s bad to be judgmental, there are many infos missing from the story.

  • jazlynjay
    jazlynjay   1 hours ago

    Ruth next time she calls u should say well ur the one blackmailing my father so how does that want me to pick u

  • Swirly Drool
    Swirly Drool   1 hours ago

    My mom and dad are divorced, they have been for about 9 years now. I'm 17 so that would make me 8 years old. I saw what was building up to that moment but I didn't know all of it. My dad and mom would sometimes argue before bed and some weren't as bad as others but then one really stuck with me. Just one night I can't remember what built up to it but I can remember that my grandma, my dad and my mom were in the house fighting, then after a while of just arguing my mom goes outside the house and screaming at my dad to just shoot her right then and there, (and something u should know about my dad is that he did something to my stepsister who was only 16 at the time not going to disclose what exactly) but my dad just said he wasn't going to shoot her and it just kept going on and on and I was just holding my little puppy husky scared and crying. Then all of a sudden my mom's ex husband comes driving in the driveway with my 2 step brothers and step sister and my mom leaves with him and now it's just me, my dad, my grandma, and little Darling that's what we named our husky. I was still scared and upset but my dad managed to calm me down. Then the next day, my mom comes back all quiet like and everyone just sits at the table eating breakfast and she just talks to me, she ignores my dad completely. 2 nights before me and my mom left my dad's house my dad tried giving my mom a kiss or hug goodnight but she didn't want anythING to do with him, I slept with my mom whenever she came back on that morning cause I didn't want her to leave again because I was afraid. Then on the night me and my mom left my dad had a pool party in the back with my uncle, and a few of other people getting drunk, my dad was also a violent drunk. My aunt came and talked to my mom on the front porch with me in her lap and they talked about what was happening back there and stuff then my aunt left. Another thing is, is that my mom moved rooms farther away from my dad's room so we 1st had the room right beside my dad's room but then we moved to the back of the house into my step sisters bedroom farthest away. So after my aunt left we went back into the bedroom and I watched a little bit of spongebob, I could still hear my dad yelling and drinking in the back. I then fell asleep and my mom was in the bed beside me staying awake. My mom woke me up like 1 hour later saying we are leaving and packing up, I didn't know what was happening and I was scared but I could still hear my dad put in the back drinking and partying. My mom then picks me up and carries me to the car and then we drive off to my other aunts house and we end up staying there for a couple nights and then we moved away. My mom got custody rights over me and that was that.

  • Ama #Muslim.Sister
    Ama #Muslim.Sister   1 hours ago

    I have a similar issue with my dad but I have mixed emotions about him because I know I shouldn't hate him but he left when I was 1 and never came back no calls no texts no letters when I was 10 my mom told me he had hurt me and her and that she had made it so that he couldn't bother us anymore but when she remarried she had 7 other children and I don't hate her and never will but I feel as though I've been forgotten and that I'm just a babysitter and cleaner now days and we arnt even close anymore I wish things could've just always stayed the way they were when we were happy😧 not everything lasts tho but I'm happy things worked out for you and that this ended with a happily ever after 😊

  • wait what
    wait what   2 hours ago

    Oof that’s rough. My parents have been going through a nasty divorce for about three years now. My dad’s a total [jerk] and was manipulating and blaming my sister and I throughout the entire thing. But, their divorce will finally be finalized in about six months so I guess all’s well that ends well 🤷‍♀️